A New Home Base Despite an Old Set of Woes
We made it!
Seven states, 35 hours, and five weather types later, we arrived at our destination. Moving cross-country is not for the faint of heart, but with a little planning and a level head when problems crop up, it’s doable.
Our home sale in Maine had some hiccups and caused a significant delay in our departure, which not only set our timeline back, but it also set me back. I planned for a variety of hiccups, but there are some you just can’t plan for. Because of one of those hiccups, I had to be much more physically active than I wanted to be, given my myasthenia gravis (MG). As a result, I was a little weaker in the legs than I preferred at the start of this journey.
I was very thankful to have had a good friend as a copilot for the drive, to help offset any negative impact from this extra activity. Thank goodness for great friends and a community that rallied behind us in our last hours in Maine.
On the road again
Our first stop was New Hampshire to pick up my husband’s friend, who would be driving with him in the moving truck. Since we got the later start, we had to do more night driving. I was worried about that because I have ocular symptoms that include ptosis (when the eyelids droop) in my right eye and double vision when my eyes get tired.
Following behind the moving truck in my van, though, seemed to help with my concerns; I didn’t experience the level of eye fatigue or strain that I’d been expecting.
Once we picked up my husband’s copilot, we headed west through Vermont, New York, and Ohio. Once we hit Michigan, we “hung a righty” to go north through the state. The small town we moved to in Wisconsin is in the north, not far from the Upper Peninsula of Michigan. We wanted to avoid any major traffic snafus of driving through a big city like Chicago, so we took the more scenic route.
We managed to drive through rain, sleet, snow, dense fog, and high winds. Despite how well I planned for this move, you can’t plan for Mother Nature. Having the windshield wipers going fast during torrential downpours is something that can cause me eye fatigue and blurred vision. Once again, I was thankful to have help driving.
Home sweet home
At 5:30 on Saturday morning, we pulled into the driveway of the place we now call home. Now it’s time to unpack, get connected with all new doctors, meet folks in the community, and get settled into a new normal.
Planning is something that we can have control over when we as myasthenics feel like we have no control over our bodies. While a lot of what we faced during our travel I couldn’t have anticipated, my planning helped me keep a level head so I could pivot and adjust as needed. I had a set of expectations for how the move would go, what I would be capable of, and the type of help I would require. I thought those expectations were reasonable, but in reality they were a little high.
I’m doing my best to not beat myself up over how little I can help my husband with getting settled and unpacked. Rather than focusing on what I can’t do, I’m focusing on what I can do and taking over the tasks that require little to no physical exertion — like establishing utilities, setting up trash pickup, and getting mail services squared away. These are all things I can do from the comfort of my chair using the tools I have available to me: smartphone, tablet, and computer.
It was a long trek, but my MG played nice. Now it’s time for me to go frolic and play on our little homestead in northern Wisconsin.
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