3 tips for traveling solo with myasthenia gravis
Traveling with a chronic illness requires planning, communication, and support
For the first time since my medical retirement from the U.S. Army in 2011, my myasthenia gravis (MG) is stable enough that I felt comfortable traveling 12 hours to North Dakota to go see my folks. By myself.
The last time I got to see my mom was at my grandma’s funeral in 2017. It has been five years since I’ve seen my mama in person; five years since I got to give her a hug — until this month.
No, those aren’t typos. Yes, it was the first time in 12 years that I was able to go on a solo trip safely. My dad travels a lot, so I’ve had the opportunity to see him throughout the years, but Mom works in the medical field and was unable to freely travel.
Traveling with myasthenia gravis can be scary, as so many “what ifs” run through the mind.
“What if my legs get too tired and I can’t react to dangers in the road?”
“What if my breathing is compromised, the meds don’t work, and I’m in the middle of nowhere with no access to help?”
“What if I start having bulbar symptoms and choke while driving?”
What if, what if, what if?
One thing MG has taught me is that we can’t live our lives in fear of the “what ifs.” They may or may not come true. Personally, I’d rather take the necessary precautions and live my life to the fullest.
My trip to North Dakota lasted nine days and was amazing. I enjoyed coffee dates, conversation, drywalling, and meeting the horses on the farm with Dad. Mom and I started a puzzle, had some great discussions, and relaxed for most of the time I was there. It was uneventful, relaxing, therapeutic, and monumental all at the same time.
Due to the success of my trip, I thought I’d share my top three tips for traveling long distances alone when you have myasthenia gravis.
Tip No. 1: Have open conversations
If you’ve read any of my columns, you’ll know that I’m a big advocate of open and honest communication. Traveling solo was no different. I discussed my concerns with both my husband and my mom. We created a plan for worst-case scenarios. During my travels, I had frequent check-ins with both of them.
It may seem like overkill to have to check in with your spouse and mom at the age of 39, but it wasn’t about control, but rather safety. The check-ins were part of the plan we devised together through our open conversations.
Tip No. 2: Take more than you think you’ll need
This includes meds. I made the mistake of not checking one of my bottles of Mestinon (pyridostigmine bromide). I took two bottles and thought I had plenty. Neither of them were full, so I only had an extra three days of an essential medication, not two weeks like I should have.
I took my bilevel airway pressure machine. I brought extra layers of clothing. My favorite pillow and blanket also made the trip with me. It was quite daunting to watch my husband load up the van as I was getting ready to leave. I felt like it was too much.
When it comes to traveling solo with MG, it is better to have it and not need it than to need it and not have it.
Tip No. 3: Build in down days
I know, that’s easier said than done. During conversations with Mom, I was honest about what I would need. One of those needs was to have at least a full down day for rest when I arrived, and one on the day before I left. I knew I needed that to feel my best for the drive. I did a lot of resting on the couch, avoided setting an alarm, and slept as much as I could.
Rest is critical and is not to be overlooked when planning a trip. It’s easy to overdo it with the excitement and adrenaline from accomplishing a major milestone.
It was good to see my folks. Taking the trip on my own was amazing. And it’s great to be back home, ready for my next intravenous immunoglobulin infusion this week.
Have you traveled with a chronic illness? If so, what tips for being prepared do you have? Please share in the comments below.
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Thanks for sharing what you think about, go through and efforts you use to get through a trip up lso a day. I’m missing so much the ways to be practical and healthy with this and other illnesses. Your reticle was very helpful and gives me ideas to think on.
Hey Kate! I'm so glad you found this helpful! I hope that you are able to implement some of my suggestions in a way that works for you! - Shawna
Great points, Shawna! I'd even add one more item I like to do prior to any trips I make. I use Google to identify the medical facilities within my network that are located near where I'm staying. This way should something unexpected happen, I feel like I have a plan in place. Fortunately, I haven't had to execute that plan yet, but I do find that it gives me a little bit more piece of mind. So happy you're feeling healthy and comfortable enough to travel alone again :)
This is a great tip, Sandra! I didn't do that this time because I was going to see my folks. My mom has been in the medical field for a long time so I was not concerned if anything would have happened. - Shawna
Good advise for traveling. I do a fair amount of travel by air and auto. The meds are key and also for me I must pay attention to diet as certain foods can cause gastro problems. As a rule, the visits that I used to make in two days I now do in three days. Also, car travel is more flexible so I am driving further than I used to.
Thanks for your input, Edward! Do you find flight or car travel to be easier for you? - Shawna